tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post3812030305594572126..comments2024-02-23T02:44:26.484-05:00Comments on Miles to the Trials: Dream Big, MamaRustyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16634471772166239315noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-46358085062671908912017-10-18T20:38:01.817-04:002017-10-18T20:38:01.817-04:00Oh my goodness. Girl I get this on SO many levels!...Oh my goodness. Girl I get this on SO many levels!! While I'm not at the level you are at and aiming to be at running wise, ( I can dream though! I just want 18xx on the clock for a 5k��)I AM a professional figure athlete. I turned Pro after my 2nd baby and by the time the 4th baby got here I had 3 Pro cards under my belt. I too got the same questions and got guilt riddled responses. I was either being the worse mom ever by spending 3-4 hours a day working out (while the kids slept) or being selfish if I over slept and took the baby with me to the gym child watch. What I've learned is that there is no pleasing everybody. All you have to do is find a good training schedule that works for your family and know you are being a GOOD mom by perusing your big dreams. Children learn what they live. If children see parents that work hard and chase after thier dreams in life then more than likely they will too! You are setting the example for your daughter and when 2020 rolls around she will think that all moms are aiming for the OT, and there's nothing wrong with mom stretching at the play ground or doing endless loops around a track or the neighborhood with a stroller... mamma, you keep doing what your doing. Keep running, keep chasing your dreams and block out negativity and the nay Sayers. You are becoming the best role model in the world to the one that matters most: your daughter!! Keep at it super mamma, you got this!!!������Melissa Cunninghamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16482309725985261596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-55222181310023287172017-09-21T15:14:47.747-04:002017-09-21T15:14:47.747-04:00Exactly! Plus no one feels the need to justify mo...Exactly! Plus no one feels the need to justify more typical leisure activities such as watching television (and I won't even get started on how our hobby is healthier than most things people do with their free time). My big goal is also to get an OTQ for 2020, and I over-use the phrase "dream big" in regards to my running, so I really enjoy following your journey. :-)Sara Ibbetsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14186583699282775885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-59535416726811608182017-09-21T10:42:21.297-04:002017-09-21T10:42:21.297-04:00Haha, not sure I know what this means...?Haha, not sure I know what this means...?Tealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08392909306599288907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-55136845000869513892017-09-21T10:41:48.565-04:002017-09-21T10:41:48.565-04:00Michele: Thanks for your encouragement! Glad to he...Michele: Thanks for your encouragement! Glad to hear you are back at it and better then ever! Hope to see you in 2020 :) Tealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08392909306599288907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-8242358552648905632017-09-21T10:40:13.315-04:002017-09-21T10:40:13.315-04:00Aw thanks, Joanne! So sweet of you to say :)Aw thanks, Joanne! So sweet of you to say :)Tealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08392909306599288907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-80802533685403134892017-09-21T10:39:34.911-04:002017-09-21T10:39:34.911-04:00Thanks! :) Thanks! :) Tealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08392909306599288907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-25679203567255188462017-09-20T17:06:43.898-04:002017-09-20T17:06:43.898-04:00Hi Teal- Just read your post. Im a mommy too and ...Hi Teal- Just read your post. Im a mommy too and in my early 40's ( so technically a masters now- yikes). I have a 4 and 2 year old & I stalled greatly in my training and racing between kids bc I thought I couldn't do it all and compete at a high level. I finally put that aside after baby #2 and I am racing better than before and trying to be patient too. Seeing other moms & moms in their 40s and beyond competing at the highest levels has inspired me. My goal would be to qualify to run the trials in 2020 but Im enjoying the process more than the results now and love when my 2 year old says mommy how was your run. Keep chipping away- our littles will thank us and your a great mom! Michele Sinacorenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-19658692990895239692017-09-19T17:45:18.695-04:002017-09-19T17:45:18.695-04:00She looks like the happiest baby in the world, so ...She looks like the happiest baby in the world, so I think you're doing something right, Teal! Go Mama!!!!! :DAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11790843877552165902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-10512249740928611442017-09-19T15:37:36.643-04:002017-09-19T15:37:36.643-04:00I’ve got no babies but you are amazing! Good luck ...I’ve got no babies but you are amazing! Good luck with training and you will make it to 2020 for sure! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-28098410482152012252017-09-18T19:43:49.564-04:002017-09-18T19:43:49.564-04:00Ugh, I hated the negativity about running while pr...Ugh, I hated the negativity about running while pregnant. The science shows it's really good for the baby, but people like to judge anyway. <br /><br />Thanks for your confidence! :) Tealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08392909306599288907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-86195788162887122062017-09-18T19:42:05.802-04:002017-09-18T19:42:05.802-04:00I love love love this story! Thanks so much for sh...I love love love this story! Thanks so much for sharing! Tealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08392909306599288907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-59021986476943410052017-09-18T19:41:06.350-04:002017-09-18T19:41:06.350-04:00Thanks, Lolly! It's other mothers like yoursel...Thanks, Lolly! It's other mothers like yourself that help me dream, so it works both ways :) Tealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08392909306599288907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-82562430538295221992017-09-18T19:39:33.086-04:002017-09-18T19:39:33.086-04:00Ugh yes, I wish we didn't have to (or didn'...Ugh yes, I wish we didn't have to (or didn't feel the need to) explain ourselves. We really shouldn't have to feel bad about it! Tealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08392909306599288907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-89644805056132840832017-09-18T19:38:11.505-04:002017-09-18T19:38:11.505-04:00Love your goals! Olympics for Iceland, how awesome...Love your goals! Olympics for Iceland, how awesome would that be??!! So glad you don't take people's negativity to heart. Often when people try to discourage me it just makes me want to prove them wrong/reach my goal that much more; whatever works, so long as they don't bring us down!! Best of luck with your goals :) Tealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08392909306599288907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-3971728362188354122017-09-18T15:17:17.378-04:002017-09-18T15:17:17.378-04:00WWWP?WWWP?Davehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18123740386230260242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-9101652118667853602017-09-17T19:39:30.023-04:002017-09-17T19:39:30.023-04:00You have a very smart outlook. There is no reason ...You have a very smart outlook. There is no reason why you can't run and race, you just have to be flexible. I ran a half marathon when my daughter was 7 months old. No one really asked me if I was still running after my kids were born but some were kind of rude about me running while pregnant. I have no doubt you will make it to 2020!Liz Runningmommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04437872032928853655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-69553853198770587642017-09-17T10:29:41.725-04:002017-09-17T10:29:41.725-04:00My grandfather was a world class runner (4th in th...My grandfather was a world class runner (4th in the Boston Marathon back in the 50s, 6th in the Olympic Trials). He spent long hours training and due to financial strains, often had to leave his family to go to the biggest races on his own. He even died after breaking an American Record in his age group-- he was 56 years old and died of a heart attack. However, he has achieved larger than life status within my family. His daughters (my mom and aunts) talk about how great he was on a daily basis. To say he is an inspiration would be the understatement of the century. They watched the Boston Marathon Movie because they were certain a clip of him would be in it. They have Tom Derderian's Boston Marathon Book with the pages that my grandfather's in bookmarked. There is debate in the family of who gets to keep certain trophies. He has two family members named after him. <br />My point is, my grandfather dared to compete at the highest level, and as a result he inspired and changed my entire family for generations. His legend inspired me to run, and as a result I got a scholarship to college. I can't imagine how different it would be if he had chosen not to run as much once he had children. I think even my life would be a little grayer. <br />Never be afraid to dream big dreams. As my coach says, "Contentment is for losers." :-) RunningwithUtahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08311144684347263917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-3403738064923751132017-09-17T03:47:24.005-04:002017-09-17T03:47:24.005-04:00Love love love this post!
How exactly are we suppo...Love love love this post!<br />How exactly are we supposed to be good role models to our daughters if the example we show is giving up everything we love? Our baby is about a month younger than yours (albeit we have a 3 year old as well) and getting out to exercise is the only thing keeping me sane. My energy levels have taken a massive hit lately, so the 10k I'd planned for next week looks highly unlikely, but there will be another one soon enough.<br />Sure, being a parent means there are more priorities floating around. But looking after ourselves and staying true to who we are beats most things in my book.<br />Please keep dreaming, it helps the rest of us to do the same :)Lollyhttp://runninginseries.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-19513606692306168252017-09-15T21:00:21.854-04:002017-09-15T21:00:21.854-04:00Good for you! I hate the mindset that once you...Good for you! I hate the mindset that once you're a mother you can't do anything else except be a mother. Every mom who I know who runs (or has another activity she is passionate about) is a better mother and a better person because she also does something she enjoys. Just like putting the oxygen mask on your child first in the event of low cabin oxygen on a flight, you must take care of yourself before you can take care of someone else. <br /><br />I often feel that I have to follow up any answer about my running mileage with, "I do 95% of my running while my daughter is still asleep in the morning," and I shouldn't have to feel that way. Okay, rant over, but I am happy for you in continuing to pursue big running goals!Sara Ibbetsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14186583699282775885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2643275154489673929.post-64781405099519754012017-09-15T15:42:30.235-04:002017-09-15T15:42:30.235-04:00Honestly, I (and I'm sure many others) get the...Honestly, I (and I'm sure many others) get these same responses/questions about my running and I DON'T EVEN HAVE A BABY! I can only imagine what it's like in your situation. I have been dreaming up some big things lately (getting an OTQ (2020/2024), hiring a coach, potentially even running in the Olympics for Iceland if I get close enough to 2:45), and have even found myself more recently keeping these things to myself because whenever I state them outloud to people, I often get criticism...But hey, nothing people say to me is going to make me change my mind or make me think "maybe I'm not capable?", and I'm happy I'm confident enough in myself to be able to set their comments aside and keep working my butt off.Bryndishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09528101296094282613noreply@blogger.com